Being in the Transition Generation is Weird

I’ve been thinking about how weird it is to be a part of the generation that is able to clearly understand pre and post internet life.

There’s a generation above me (my parents and all of humanity before them) that have a very minimal understanding of the internet. 

There is a generation below me (my younger cousins and all of humanity after them) where this is basically the world that they’ve always known.

And then there’s the weird in between generation that I’m part of that kind of has a foot in both worlds.

You don’t have to be a sociologist to understand that the internet has changed how we socialize. Just look at this tweet:

It either means nothing to you or like me it brought a smile to your face because you can read arabic and have seen this:

Memes and emojis are a language we’ve now all become fluent in. Way more people now meet online than offline. Videogames are now more popular than movies. Instagram and TikTok mean everyone can now choose to have their own personal reality show. And to old folks it feels hard to understand, to younger generations it makes perfect sense and to people in the transition generation it all feels…kind of weird.

You also don’t have to be an economist to understand that the internet has changed how we work. I vividly remember trekking around with my parents to drop off physical resumes and less than nine years later most of those same places would literally only accept online job applications. Also, look at this chart:

CompanyCap Rank5-12-20Market Cap5-12-201d Chg5-12-201m Chg5-12-2012m Chg5-12-20
Microsoft11,384.1-2.3%10.5%43.6%
Apple21,346.5-1.1%16.2%57.9%
Amazon31,175.6-2.2%15.4%24.7%
Alphabet4938.9-2.0%14.0%17.8%
Facebook5598.6-1.4%19.9%11.6%

The five most valuable companies according to investors right now all make their money primarily thanks to the internet. At its best the internet makes things more convenient. Pretty much anything we could ever want is just a click or tap away. Connecting with family. Learning pretty much anything. Even your favourite treats. Remember when you couldn’t do that? It sucked. But internet driven businesses have also made the lives of some undeniably worse. Just because the seemingly unstoppable combination of software and capitalism is good at commodifying data doesn’t mean we need to commodify each other and ourselves. 1

Now I don’t mean to get all “old man yells at cloud”. I love the internet. An argument could be made that Google (with the exception of maybe organized religion if you are being picky) has accomplished more for humanity than any group of people in history. And I think a big part of why it feels weird is solely due to being a part of this weird in between generation. One day we’re helping our parents understand how to set up online banking and the next we feel old because we don’t understand what this finger touching emoji actually means. It also means you have to mentally filter whether every piece of advice you get from someone older is actually practical or valid in the post internet era. It’s jarring. 

But I also tend to just overuse the words weird and strange so I googled the definition to be sure it’s what I truly mean. 2 Apparently weird is defined as “unusual or surprising in a way that is unsettling or hard to understand” and while that may be a bit harsh it definitely somewhat captures the feeling I’ve been having on the internet quite a bit lately. There are aspects of internet culture that are amazing and aspects that are horrifying and as the generation primarily responsible for shaping it in its infancy we should all put a little more thought into which ones we support.

What a time to be alive.

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Perhaps the greatest subreddit of all time

https://www.reddit.com/r/KidsAreFuckingStupid/top/?t=all

The movie “The Terminal” (highly recommended btw) somehow happened in real life

https://www.hindustantimes.com/delhi-news/german-man-living-at-delhi-airport-since-mar-18/story-VIJm8lsHTNxaws4mo99YDN.html

Super cool music challenge

https://pudding.cool/2020/04/music-challenge/

  1. These are all good things to read. All I’ll add is that I strongly believe you should be able to live comfortably in society without a “personal brand” or “side hustle”.
  2. It’s weird. I use it to mean everything from a polite way of saying “that’s dumb let’s stop talking about this” to “I’m having an unbelievably strong reaction to this for some reason and I’m not quite sure why”

Arrogance is the Worst

I don’t feel very strongly about many things but arrogance is one of them. Arrogance enrages me viscerally. In fact, I am fairly certain that the only piece of generic advice I ever feel 100% confident about giving is this..

Do your best not to be arrogant. Ever.

There are many types of arrogance. 1 Preachy arrogance. Discriminatory arrogance. Taking yourself way too seriously to have fun arrogance. Avoiding all responsibility by blaming everyone else arrogance. Etc. Etc. Etc.

Most religions are very against arrogance but don’t get it twisted there are arrogant people over there too. We should all worry a little about systems that result in arrogant people winning or taking power. I’m all for strong beliefs, disagreement and the competition of ideas just don’t be arrogant.

Don’t be too arrogant to teach, learn or change your mind. Don’t be arrogant enough to think people aren’t entitled to make mistakes. Don’t be too arrogant to apologize when you make a mistake and don’t be too arrogant to accept a sincere apology. If you’re ever unsure, it’s probably better to just err on the potentially less arrogant side. And if you think someone else is behaving arrogantly give them the benefit of the doubt until you can’t anymore. 

No good comes from arrogance so try to avoid it. Or as better and more succinctly put by someone way more poetically inclined than me..

Be humble. Sit down.

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Have you ever seen a giant cheque out of context? My neighbour has multiple for some reason.

  1. I googled “types of arrogance” as a part of writing this and according to researchers there’s apparently only 3 types of arrogance…the arrogance of thinking you have discovered a grand unified theory of arrogance ?

TikTok is Good and Resiliency Can Be Too

The last post was kind of depressing so it’s time for a little pick me up. There’ve been two things that have given me a surprising amount of joy and optimism during these dark times:

1 – TikTok

I’ve discovered that asking for someone’s opinion on TikTok is a good litmus test for determining if someone is a buzzkill or not. Anybody that “doesn’t get it” or that takes themself to seriously to enjoy it probably isn’t someone that you want in your life because it’s a damn good app. 1

2 – Quarantine wedding content. 

At first I found them a bit sad but the more I come across them the happier they make me. There’s something super cool about people being resilient and celebrating a joyous occasion amidst all this. 2

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There’s no such thing as a clickbait headline anymore:

https://www.vox.com/2020/5/1/21244463/kayleigh-mcenany-first-press-briefing-lies

https://www.linkedin.com/feed/news/half-of-humanity-told-to-stay-home-4531387

With so many terrifying graphs and charts lately it’s nice to see a funny one:

https://xkcd.com/2301/

Unexpected quarantine trends:

https://meetglimpse.com/covid19/

  1. The fact that Quibi is asking for however much a month while TikTok is free is laughable.
  2. Resiliency in the good way not in the “hold up, that’s actually sad” way.

How is anything even knowable anymore?

I’ve been having two seemingly conflicting thoughts recently: 

1 – We’re all hopeless idiots who know very little individually.  

2 – Being able to discount or filter out potential false information is more important than ever.

The first is an idea I’ve become a little fascinated with ever since I heard this incredible piece of radio. So much of our society is built upon trusting other people that know more than us and as this pandemic has demonstrated over and over again a lot of bad things happen when that trust is eroded.

The second has been something that has crossed my mind quite a bit as we all struggle to separate fact from fiction during this pandemic. Are masks necessary? Are recovered people immune? How did this all start? Nobody seems to know. We have gone from a world with gatekeepers of information (which had its own downsides) to an exhausting world in which we are bombarded with more conflicting information sources than ever before.

So how is one supposed to survive in this world? The first remedy that comes to mind is by increasing overall media literacy. Being able to gauge the quality of information and its source is becoming an increasingly valuable skill in and of itself. Perhaps this has changed but I know I sure as hell didn’t have a class covering this in school and is critical thinking something that can truly be taught in a classroom? I’m not sure but I’ve definitely found this to be a handy image to drop in the occasional group chat:

And the thing is this isn’t even the worst of it because….the deep fakes are coming.

I don’t really have much to add on this beyond the frighteningly obvious thought:

HOLY SHIT THIS IS TERRIFYING AND GOING TO MAKE THINGS SO MUCH WORSE

I hope and pray that there are a bunch of smart people working on ways to counteract and get ahead of this.

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Bezos is hella rich:

https://mkorostoff.github.io/1-pixel-wealth/

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https://www.boredpanda.com/tulip-garden-keukenhof-photography-albert-dros/

This kid is a legend:

https://www.nytimes.com/2020/05/05/us/utah-boy-driver.html

I Miss Basketball

I have no idea how it took me so long to discover the Wikipedia pages for NBA regular season / post season records but I’m glad I did. As a basketball fan that misses the playoffs dearly it was just what I needed. Some unfiltered thoughts upon first glance:

  • We are all potentially living through the golden age of basketball: 
    • At first I thought that it was because I am a bigger hoops fan than any other sport but a quick skim through the record pages for other sports I follow at a reasonably close level seems to confirm that there are just way more records held by NBA players playing over the past 2-3 decades than in other sports. 
  • Steph Curry is amazing: 
    • Reggie Miller is in second place all time with 2560 career three pointers made over 1389 games. Steph is slightly behind him with 2483 career three pointers in less than half as many games (694). It is only a matter of time before he passes Ray Allen in the number one spot with 2973 three pointers made.
  • John Stockton is underrated: 
    • This might just be my own basketball blind spot but how is John Stockton not ranked higher among all time greats when he is so far ahead of everyone in career assists and steals? He has more than 20% higher totals than the second place record holder in both (Jason Kidd both times weirdly). Longevity matters!
  • Random Raptor facts that blew my mind: 
    • Kawhi has the highest win percentage of all time (75%). 
    • DeMar has the record for most free throws made in a row in one game (24).
    • Giannis’ 20 rebound game against the Raps this postseason put him in a 9 way tie for most defensive rebounds in a playoff game.
  • The NBA has really good nicknames: 
    • Popeye Jones and Sleepy Flloyd in particular stand out since I hadn’t heard of them.
  • There will always be incredibly influential sports stars that you will not be aware of simply because they played so long ago: 
    • I mean how have I never heard of Joe Fulks?
  • Things that genuinely surprised me: 
    • Derek Fisher holds the record for most playoff games played in (259).
  • Things I knew but that still kind of surprised me when seen written out: 
    • Shaq missed an insane amount of free throws (5317)
    • The Lakers have made the finals a lot (31 times)
    • The spurs have been good for a while (22 playoff appearances in a row as of this year). 

God bless people that update wikipedia pages. I legitimately feel like I should have paid for this experience.

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A super strange and fascinating read:

https://www.atlasobscura.com/articles/air-sinai-ghost-flight

People with weird opinions:

 http://vulture.com/2020/01/comedians-on-comedy-cliches.html

Sometimes things are funny until they aren’t:

https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2020-03-31/divorces-spike-in-china-after-coronavirus-quarantines

Another Bloggy Blog

So we are 3874932 days into quarantine (or at least it feels like it) and seeing as how baking and running (my two newly discovered quarantine hobbies) aren’t really viable options in Ramadan I’ve decided to start blogging. 1

Up until now my personal way of documenting this coronavirus madness has been by collecting funny memes about it that I’ve come across but we’re about two months in now, the dank memes are drying up, the sad idea that this is going to be the new normal for a while has fully settled in and I figure it’s time for something a little better.

My hope is for this to be a way to sporadically share thoughts and interesting things I’ve come across. I say sporadically because I’m guessing it’ll probably be a biweekly ting (the less ambitious biweekly) at best. Most of us are spending too much time on the internet right now anyway and I need something to keep me from being a complete hermit.

Now here is a tiktok that just might be my dad’s favourite video of all time.

  1. Quarantine has 100% turned me into a middle-aged housewife.